Men and women often say that before they got married and had children, they were able to go out and savor their evening. When the children start coming along and careers start getting in the way, it can quickly become very difficult to have any time left over for romance. Perhaps a change is in order if you find this occurring. In order to maintain an happy and health marriage it is vital to be able to spend time alone together. And that doesn’t imply that you should bring your kids with you every time you go out. The happiest couples are generally the ones who take the time to go out on a date (without the kids) at least a few times each month. While you are out you might ask yourself exactly what do we do with the kids? In case you have never used one before, think about the benefits of babysitters, friends, or family members.  

Leaving your baby for the first time can be stressful it is the best thing that you and your husband can do for your relationship.  Just make sure to find a reliable person that you trust like a parent, a sibling or a close friend that has had children and know how to take care of them if they are colicky or fussy.  Leaving your young ones in someone elses care is normally filled with dreadful thoughts and fears. These are valid concerns so you need to ensure you are comfortable leaving.  You can actually get out and rekindle your relationship while having the confidence of knowing a qualified individual is watching the your new baby or young children.  

The simple truth is that parents need a break occasionally. If you give all of your focus on your kids 24 hours of the day, you can get pretty tired pretty fast. It’s sad to say it, but after a couple of months of the exact same routine, you can quickly become very unexcited about the task of parenting. For many parents, a weekly date night makes the joy of parenting all that much sweeter throughout the rest of the week.

Some great date night ideas to consider are to get a couples massage or pedicure.  Go bowling or to an arcade to play games together.  Wine tasting is always  a fun and relaxing time as well.  Ice skating or roller skating or even just going for a bike ride or a walk.  A cooking class or there has been wide spread attention given to the wine and canvas classes where you can enjoy a glass of wine and paint a picture.  Many of these classes offer a separate option for couples so they don't end up with the same painting.  I actually have one of these scheduled for my husband and I in June.  I can't wait.  Playing pool and darts are always fun as well.

Whatever you decide, make sure that you both make the time to pay attention to each other and not get caught up in the day to day activities.  Enjoy the baby and the kids but make sure to continue to enjoy each other's company on a one on one basis.  You won't regret it.

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